I went to church today, which means....
I showered, got dressed (and even wore heels!), did my hair and make-up
as well as got 3 kids ready
all before 10 am!
Church was a little chaotic but I survived.
I showered, got dressed (and even wore heels!), did my hair and make-up
as well as got 3 kids ready
all before 10 am!
Church was a little chaotic but I survived.
I'm in survival mode right now. It takes quite a lot of effort and time to even get the basics done. All moms go through it, right? I'm always amazed at the moms that look great and seem to have energy after just a week of having a baby. For those who saw me at church today, DON'T BE FOOLED, I am NOT one of those moms!
Gavin is 2 weeks old now and my days are still very slow-moving.
He is sleeping at night now, although he gets up every 1 1/2 to 2 hours to eat. When the sun rises and I have 2 other kids bounding full of energy, my poor eyelids can barely stay open. I can barely remember my night full of feedings. I usually wake up to myself still in the chair, my neck and body stiff, with a certain "unmentionable" body part still hanging out, with a content newborn snoozing away in my lap.
Dressing the children (and myself for that matter) for the day usually doesn't occur until it's practically time to get in jammies again. Makenzie's hair and sometimes Jordan's diapers get neglected for a little longer than usual. With me sitting down and feeding Gavin often, it allows the other two to roam the house free. There is usually a trail of messes to follow. For example: Makenzie found a bag of M&M's from Grandma that I hid on the top shelf of a cupboard. I found her downstairs with an empty bag and M&M's all over the floor. One morning Jordan got in the fridge and brought me an egg one morning. Luckily it survived the hands of a 2 year old going up the stairs and we saved that egg from becoming scrambled too soon.
This is my life and I love it, even if it sounds like I'm complaining. I'm so very blessed to be a stay-at-home mom and to have 3 beautiful children! As I've gone through the newborn phase now for the third time, I know it won't last long. Before I know it, I will find our lives back in a sense of normalcy.

12 comments:
Yay for the gate!! Thanks for sharing-- it's nice to know that I'm not the only one that struggles during the newborn days! Forget that, sometimes my days sound exactly like your recent ones and I have nothing like your excuse!
For three kids and the third one only being 2 weeks old it sounds like you are doing fantastic! What a wonderful thing for your dads to do- that gate will be quite the blessing, I am sure. Good luck super mom.
You didn't mention that you also have school and who knows what else on your plate.
He is still so tiny!.
It's good to know that you are alive and well.
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming......You do sound tired but it also sounds like you are doing amazingly well. It made me wish that I was down the street again and could come take the kids for a few hours. We love you and miss you and think you all look wonderful. COngrats again!
I'm very jealous of the gate. And Paisley is 2 1/2 months old and I still feel like we are slow moving.
I'm glad to see you are surviving! You give me hope! Your gate must be heaven sent! Your little guy is a doll, and I wish I could hold him. Maybe in December! Hang in there!
oh i remember those days.. when all my boys were little...hang in there..he is so cute...and your kids are surviving just fine
You look great to me. We love being moms and staying at home but it is after all the hardest job in the world. So it has a lot of challenges. I often have to choose between getting ready or cleaning or something else. Many days I don't get ready at all.I have this great new thing I've been doing all summer. I don't wear any mascara or eyeliner but I get ready besides that. Than at night I don't have to worry about taking my eye make-up off. Some days I finally feel like I am doing as much as I used to when I had only 2 kids-and my baby just turned 1! Just enjoy each day!
I wondered how you were doing:) I laughed when I read this because I had just gone all day without brushing Sophia's hair, and I just went from 1 to 2.
Wow Jen...congrats! We welcomed our third in May and I can actually say that I am FINALLY starting to move past survival mode (ok, on most days) and discover what is sure to become our new normal. Your family is adorable. It sounds like you guys are doing well. We both have a daughter and then two sons...funny. Good luck!
Congrats Jenny!!! I am so excited for you guys. Way to go on moving and putting up with an overdue baby without killing yourself. I couldn't have done it. We miss you guys!! YOur kids are SO cute and getting so big.
Congrats and the baby!! He is beautiful!! And the newborn stage ends...I recieved the best advise from an older mom (her kids are grown and gone) about the newborn stage. She talked about how much she loved those quiet moments when it was just her and her baby, how peaceful it was and how she just cherised those moments. "They don't last" she said "soon, too soon they'll be sleeping through the night and you'll wish that once again you could just love them during a peaceful quiet night." I tired to think of this and enjoy it more with my last baby. Because enjoy it or not, you'll still be tired in the morning! Anyhow congrats again!!
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